How To Talk To College Girls On Campus

College is the best. Hot girls are everywhere, but if you don't know how to talk to college girls on campus, then it can feel really crappy. I know because I've been there. But I've figured a few things out that are true about all women, especially college chicks, when it comes to talking and flirting with them.

First, make the vibe about you and her. A lot of guys make it an "me vs. her" type interaction and that can really hurt your chances. I would remember reading the guru's stuff, and they'd say "tease, tease, tease", and so I'd do that. But the problem with that is that even though it gets a reaction from the girl, and can get her interested in you, if that's all you do and that's always the vibe of the conversation, then it's going to ultimately push the girl away.

Instead, when I was trying to figure out how to talk to college girls on campus I came across the idea of framing it as "me + her". In other words make a connection as soon as possible. An example of this is would be "Hey, you look like my future ex-wife." It's still kind of teasing, but much more playful and sets up that fram that you two were together already, creating a connection right off the bat.

If you're learning how to talk to college girls on campus then it's essential that you learn how to create and balance sexual tensionin your interactions (unless, of course you're trying to befriend all the cute girls, but I think you're looking for more than that, so it's important to push things towards the physical). This is what the teasing is for. Like I said earlier, you can over-tease, but if you don't tease at all (tease, or go against what most guys do; i.e. create tension) then your relationship is going to turn platonic and you are going to be placed immediately in the dreaded "friend zone". Don't let that happen to you.

One of the best ways to create tension, but also make sure it's not too much, causing her to push away, is to combine teasing and humor. Dating coach David DeAngelo called this "cocky funny humor"; others call it "push-pull". Whatever you label it, it works the same in every situation. You inject some sexual tension, maybe with a bold statement where you make fun of her star wars themed ringtone (IDK, just go with it, it's an example) "Really? You're such a dork!" But then you say it playfully, and add, "It's OK though, cause secretly I'm a star wars nerd too. I think we might be able to get along... as long as you don't go over the top and dress up in star wars outfits and talk about it in front of my friends." See how that is slightly teasing, but it also creates a connection of "you + her" and is funny too. Figuring out how to talk to college girls on campus is actually much simpler than most people make it out to be. Just be playful, tease, have fun, and create a connection between the two of you and you're set!